Showing posts with label What I Believe. Show all posts
Showing posts with label What I Believe. Show all posts

12.17.2010

Christmas String

I just had to share this story...it touched my heart as I read it yesterday and it has been in the forefront of my mind ever since. During the Christmas season, as a family, we discuss in great detail others who are not as fortunate and come up with ways to help make their Christmas brighter by buying gifts, making and delivering little surprises and sharing the love of Christ. I can't wait to share this story with my kiddos. What an example this little boy is to each and everyone of us!

By Jeffrey W. Foy
As my first Christmas as a missionary in Ecuador approached, I was not sure what to expect. A few weeks earlier I had been transferred to what was up to that point the poorest area to which I had been assigned. Without even a single paved road, the frequent passing of buses would keep more dust and dirt in the air than what was on the ground, making it next to impossible to see the relatively few Christmas lights that had been hung.
Upon my arrival at my new area, I was greeted with a letter from home. It included a story from my father about how he and his missionary companion, while serving in a poor post-war section of Germany, had bought a bag of candy and walked the streets on Christmas morning passing it out to children. He described the children’s faces as he gave them what was probably one of the few gifts the children had received. For some, it was the first piece of candy they had ever had.
After I shared the story with my companion, we decided to set out and do the same. As we walked the streets and passed out candy, the children graciously accepted our gifts and ran to show their parents, whose thanks we felt as they nodded their approval. We found, as had my father and grandfather, that the greatest joy at Christmas comes from serving others in whatever manner we can.
We approached a happy six-year-old boy playing in the dirt. To our amazement, he declined the piece of candy we offered him. When we asked him why, he told us he had already been given the best gift ever. We were curious and asked him to tell us what it was. He looked at us impatiently and said, “Can’t you see?” Our eyes searched for a shiny toy or new clothes—anything that seemed worthy of declining our piece of candy. But we saw nothing. We asked him again to tell us about his great gift.
He stopped playing, looked up at us, and with the biggest smile I have ever seen, showed us a piece of string. He told us how much he loved his parents for teaching him to be good enough for Santa Claus to leave him the string. He told us his father had helped him put a hole in an empty tuna fish can so the boy could tie it to his string, turning it into a “dump truck” that he had used all morning to haul rocks across the neighborhood.
“Thanks for the candy,” he said, “but I have too much work to do. I have to haul these rocks before it gets too dark to see.”

On Christmases since that day, I have seen children show off the gifts they have received for Christmas. But I have yet to see evidence of happiness that compares to that of the boy whose joy lay in a simple piece of string tied to a tuna fish can, a gift from his father, who served him as best he could.

A boy and his dad made a “dump truck” from a string and empty can. The excited boy hauled rocks all day.

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10.15.2010

Reindeer Magic

I know it's still early to be thinking about Christmas gifts...
...but when I saw this little reindeer at the Christmas Tree Shop last week for $1.69 I just knew I had to buy him! In fact I bought them all! Does he look familiar?
Yep, almost identical to Pottery Barn's small Twig Reindeer (which sells for $14!!!)
I plan on giving my reindeer away for Christmas along with my own rendition of Magic Reindeer Food as hostess gifts, visiting teaching gifts, neighbor gifts, etc.
Can't wait!!!
Have you started thinking about Christmas gifts yet?

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10.03.2010

Accepting Life's Curve Balls

It's about time I finally sat down and wrote what has been going on in my life the past 6 weeks. I have been sick. Exhausted. Nauseous. Exhausted. Nauseous. Hmmmmm, wonder what it could be? So, let me back up.......

I came home from Girl's Camp at the end of August and could not get my act together. I was so tired and finally faced the reality that I might be pregnant. But it was a far fetched idea...or so I thought. I had an IUD so how could I possibly be pregnant?

The last Sunday in August I took a home pregnancy test and sure enough: positive.

I called my doctor the next morning and he got me in right away. I took a test at his office: negative. We did an internal ultrasound: nothing. He checked my IUD: in place; no problem. He assured me that there was no way I was pregnant. Boy, did I feel dumb! Before I went home I went and had some blood work done...just in case. My doctor called me that night. Guess what? I was pregnant.

I went back to the doctor's office the next day to have the IUD removed and thus began my curve ball journey. Since then, for the past 5 weeks I have been to the "drawing station" for blood work 2-3 times a week. They know me by name and shake their head's each time they see me coming. My arms are so bruised!! JK groans each time I pull up to the building...poor little guy! When my hCG levels reached 2,000 I had another ultrasound to determine if I was carrying a viable pregnancy. We found out 2 1/2 weeks ago that it was not. The ultrasound found the sac in my right fallopian tube. I went back to the doctor the following day (the day I went to TOFW) and had two shots of methotrexate. So here I am over two weeks later and I am still going and having blood work done (now just once a week) hoping my levels go down to 0 and I won't need surgery.

Through all of this there have been so many blessings:
~I spent all of Labor Day weekend reading the NieNie Dialogues from start to finish (something I've wanted to do for a long time) while DK took the kids and did super fun stuff.
~One night when I was in the kitchen crying because I had to make dinner the phone rang. It was a woman from church saying she was on her way over to my house with dinner, dessert and flowers....and no, she didn't know anything about my situation! She just felt prompted to serve our family.
~I have been listening to Christmas music (growing up my Dad wouldn't allow Christmas music before Thanksgiving and here it is September and barely October!) because it makes me happy and lifts my spirit.
~I discovered how much I love Diet Raspberry Ginger Ale. Super good!
~DK, my night owl husband, has been up early every morning getting the kids ready for school. He's out the door with Rand at 7:05 to take her to the bus stop and then off to work himself. Amazing!
~One night while DK was at a town meeting I heard a car door in my driveway. It was a friend bringing chocolate chip banana bread for breakfast the next morning and a scrumptious pasta dish for dinner the next night. Manna from heaven!
~My children. The poor dears don't know what to think of all of this. It's something we have decided to not share with them. JK said the funniest thing to me Friday afternoon. Around 3:00, he said, "Mom, why don't you make some macaroni and cheese now so we can have dinner tonight." Another day I heard Rand tell a neighbor what a great mom I was because I let her eat popcorn and ice cream for dinner! Obviously that makes me the the most amazing mom ever! And my sweet Kenners is always there to snuggle or grab a blanket for me or refill my Diet Raspberry Ginger Ale cup. They really are the greatest kiddos in the world. I am so blessed.
~And most importantly, I have felt the comfort of the Spirit and the love of my Savior.

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10.02.2010

Perfect Fall Saturday

We started this beautiful fall day with a dozen donuts from Dunkin. The kids were beyond thrilled...this is something we NEVER do!
After two days of crazy wind and rain I was able to start decorating my front stoop for fall. We are going to buy our pumpkins next weekend. It's our tradition each year to take a fall drive and buy pumpkins on Columbus Day.
I bought this glass pitcher at Target for $2.48 the other day and filled it with hydrangeas from the back yard.
Last night I finished my PBK Thanksgiving banner
Here is an up close and personal look...
...I opted out of doing the "giving" part of the banner.
In my humble opinion it made the banner too long.
I'll probably take it down and put it back up next month...or maybe I'll just leave it and enjoy my handiwork!
This weekend is General Conference. We were floored when we heard President Monson announce the building of a new temple in Hartford, CT. We were all jumping around doing the happy dance!!
A quick snapshot of watching Conference while President Uchtdorf is speaking. Loved his message of refocusing on what matters and letting go of what does not. So simple. So true. So timely!!

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